How often do you listen to someone expressing how they feel about how something went down. While they are speaking, you think to yourself, this is not how it went!!
Everyone one experiences the same situation differently….this is their perception.
Usually when 2 people can not agree on how something happens, it’s because their perceptions do not match. You have to recognize, this is their reality and it it a fact to them. The one way to build together in this situation, is to come to a common ground of what you both can agree on happened and be open to the rest on how you both saw the situation lay out.
Being right is not the important matter here, be ok with each other IS!!
Peace out!